How has ADHD affected your relationships

I isolate a lot. My family, no matter how hard I try to explain and give them data to back me up, still thinks I'm "using adhd as an excuse/crutch" and it upsets me. My bf doesn't get it either, so I've just stopped trying to explain it to anyone.

A lot of people don’t understand your mind if they don’t have ADHD and you come off as crazy or not thinking correctly, and that puts a toll on me when it comes to relationships so I isolate

My partner thought I was just messing with him constantly. It still hurts when I think back on it. Otherwise, my first boyfriend had ADHD worse than I did so it wasn't a big deal