sarbear83 avatar
sarbear83
1
1 year ago

I'm in hyperfocus mood now. My daughter keeps interrupting me

for example .She be watching you tube .she goes how old do think that child or person. is .l sayi dont know..5 maybe .she like no i think 6.in my head i don't care leave me to tic tok in peace.. she obsession in guessing ages. She ask me how old her dolls are on daily basis. .if the same doll was 1 yesterday.today it 2 because I guess right .then or she forgot that age she said yesterday. Really it boring I don't care.i just go through tic tok . And be left alone.the relief when she gets on school bus and goes to school.in the morning I don't want be ask questions. It even make job hard to do then because I feel overwhelming like making breakfast or pack lunches. I leave it to last min. I can't say shut up to her.dont get me wrong .I feel like it .but I don't.

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pilesofdishes
1y

I understand completely, it's parental overwhelm and it happened to me for a long time. Even still occasionally but medication definitely helped me be a more relaxed parent and have more patience. It's the mixture between the video noise, your child talking and touching you, maybe the lights are too bright.. I could go on. But you're going in the right direction to get a diagnosis ❤️ Keep on going, you're doing great ❤️

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EL_Guapo42
1y

Your daughter is just bored and wants attention to remedy it. And is it social media that grasp your focus or is it the zoning out part. I zone out when I look at that stuff, not focus.

sarbear83 avatar
sarbear83
1y

No as I'm on waiting list for dignose..in till then I'm un sure if take meds .I try meditation. I can't focus well

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AkashaMae
1y

That stuffs so hard and the final reason I went and got diagnosed & medicine. I did not like how angry I would get every single day, at the kids, if I tried to accomplish ANYTHING while they were home. Do you take medications? Do you meditate?

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