Julia from Numo avatar
Julia from Numo
25
6 months ago

How Do You Stay Grounded?

What keeps you balanced emotionally? Share your strategies, hacks, or even rants—we’re here to support each other! 🌈🧘

lilalili avatar
lilalili
3d

It helps me to “isolate” myself. Only when I’m alone I feel more connected with myself and I can better understand what I’m feeling. My me time is extremely important to stay grounded.

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brighteyes76
1w

I have to go be by myself and breathe. When my emotions are not in check, being around others make it worse and causes me to lose my shit even more.

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issaelia RahRah
1w

Something I started doing as a kid, that I still do today is going into the bathroom and turning the shower on. The sound of the water soothes me. I turn the water on pretty warm so the bathroom steams up and when I’m ready, I’ll go into the shower and sit down. The shower that are also a tub. I turn on the shower part & I’ll sit & cry or do breathing techniques. For whatever reason the warmth, plus sound of the shower, and the feeling of the water falling on me has always been soothing & helps ground me anytime I’m feeling an intense emotion.

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hellomarisa
1w

I breathe…it sounds super typical but when I went to therapy this was a game changer for me. (look up the box method breathing) It doesn’t remove the block feeling but it helps relieve some stress/anxiety to think about my emotions more clearly when I feel stuck planning. I also plan for ‘paralysis time’ If I know I have to get work done that week. I make sure to be extra extra realistic with how much time I will need then once it think its realistic enough I add a more time to that ‘paralysis time’ as i tend to underestimate the time I do need to recover my energy mentally. This way I dont feel guilty for taking extra time to do nothing 😂

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sjr82yb-xjgF
1w

I honestly don’t know … I’m just starting, but I often go and listen to music by myself to reset.

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TheRealHarley
1w

I have a yoga swing- and it calms me so much

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lalalali
3w

Last week there was a time that i had this big anger that i haven’t had for a longgg time. But the previous week was very overwhelmed and frustrating for me so with a small trigger, it led me to have this big negative emotion. First i tried typing it out and it didn’t really help. I went for a walk and tried taking deep breath, eventually i needed to call my dad and cry. I knew that i just need somebody who will listen and calm me down.

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mstfool
3w

Breathe and work or rest Talk it out

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MariahGruenke
3w

Essential oil necklace

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amfam3-AiVb
1mo

I love writing, but when my brain is overloaded it feels very frustrating. I just thought of some ideas that might take trial and error. I love journaling but using talk-to-text for the thoughts. I find different expressions and activities help me through the big feels. (changing to handwriting-type font, printing the page, decorating with scrapbook ideas, mood coloring, hole/disc punch insert into binder) Maybe these can help with creative outlet, while venting helps release the pressure of the bottle-neck thoughts and emotions.

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amfam3-AiVb
1mo

I love reading every post about how yall handle yourselves in specific ways. I hear “take a deep breath” or “walk it off” (while these are some ways that DO work) but I am beginning to realize that I may need a way to disrupt my moment. These specific and various ways are helpful in being able to become more aware.

Nientje avatar
Nientje
1mo

I Figuered it depends on emotion. Sadness: get a hot waterbottle and blanket and cry. Anger: go walk it out, call a friend to vent or write or type it out to vent

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supercalz
1mo

Ich schreib Gedichte über meine langweilige Geschichte dass ich rede nur über mit KI weil ich denke niemand dass hören will

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qtcmtgf-MUID
1mo

i lost my mum 2023 and i find it hard to let her go i need hellp on respecting the people i love

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hellomarisa
1w

Same I lost mine in 2017. Don’t try anything too extreme. Just get out the house and try something new where you force yourself to meet people or to meet with yourself but not inside your house. Maybe a run club. Especially any sports helps with dopamine. Shoot maybe even golf. Or work. Rumination will hit but us at times and as adhders…we ruminate even harder!!so we need to distribute our attention outside our heads. And also if you feel like ‘what’s the point of anything’ let me tell ya…the point is to allow yourself balance. Why? You are alive your mom provided you an opportunity for a chance at life, go live it, go cry, go laugh, do nothing, do something. But with balance. Your mom probably raised you and put effort and love not only on you but other things as well small things, big things, her relationships with other people etc. How we act is a mirror and testament to our character it’s important to understand your values and why they matter to you…including treating others well. Why is this important? if we know our values we have more control over our thoughts…if we can redirect our thoughts then we can make better choices and choices determine the quality of our life experiences. Not all the time but most of the time. Be the hero of you story you have free will and that free will starts from something small as a thought and no one can ever take your thoughts away.

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ooviolet
1mo

Separate myself from situation for 5 mins to cool down from frustration

IsaHe avatar
IsaHe
1mo

When I realize I‘m not ok - mostly overwhelmed - the best thing is to get my thoughts out and order them. Ideally, I do that on my own by writing it down, but that‘s not the easiest way when I‘m overwhelmed or stressed. So usually I try talking to someone about it or I create a voice memo (or several), just because talking it out helps.

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amfam3-AiVb
1mo

Thank you for this! I love the idea of voice memos. I have tried talk to text in a journaling app. It helps bc I am able to go back and read it like a written journal entry.

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lalalali
3w

I mirror this so much, i also can’t just think in my head, I feel like my brain can’t comprehend complex information, so when i get overwhelmed writing it all out or talk while thinking really helps

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Unknown
1mo

I find meditation and journalling helps combined with a long walk

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maniacalmaranda
1mo

Oh no. This is making me realize that maybe I don’t balance my emotions. I think I react on my emotions, then deal with the fall out later. Oof. I need to learn when to journal my thoughts and feelings vs. rant about them. I need to channel my negative emotions into action, maybe physical action such as exercise. Definitely something to be aware of and to make a change moving forward.

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amfam3-AiVb
1mo

Thank you for sharing your experience. It helps me with some perspective. The realization is a heavy-hitter. I walked out in my shift at work bc a coworker humiliated me in front of the whole team. (6 months of this) I lost my job and have been going over how everything went wrong…every single day. The way you said “I think I…” helped me by making me question my own reaction and how I am still dealing with “the fall out later”. Very powerful

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LookASquirrel
1mo

I started Jazzercise about half a year ago, and it has done wonders for balancing other parts of my life.

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ADessolofaccHoD
2mo

I’ve discovered also Bioenergetics exercises, and I’m studying them since the last year. They were developed within the psychological environment through 1900, and they are actually grounding exercises. It’s the most effective way to do grounding for me. Can do it also every morning and in every moment is needed, starting from breathing deeply

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amfam3-AiVb
1mo

Thank you for sharing your discovery. It sounds great to look up and implement.

filip avatar
filip
3mo

Sunlight has more impact on my balance most days than I’d care to admit. Getting enough sun shouldn’t be a big problem, but it’s dependent on routine and the weather, and when I fall out of routine or the weather gets bad it’s the first thing I forget about.

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NicosianSummer
1mo

Same!! I recently got the two sun therapy lamps linked below (after recommendation from my Psychiatrist) and it’s been a game changer for me! I only wish they had one I could wear on my wrist like a watch or something for when I’m not around them (wait… how do I know it DOESN’T exist?!…. lol Thanks for sparking the idea! Guess who’s off to do some googling 🙋‍♀️) Oh yeah, and P.S. I highly recommend getting a cheap smart plug so you can use routine shortcuts and cut out having to remember stuff. LASTAR Light Therapy Lamp, 12,000... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BL2BFSGQ?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share Light Therapy Lamp,10000 Lux... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BM37591C?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Bridget01 avatar
Bridget01
1mo

I just bought the floor lamp has it helped you

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Angelica11!!
3mo

Prayer and meditation

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OptimistikChic
3mo

I have become good at carching my negative, sabotaging thoughts and reframin (turning them around by 1st recognizing them. 2. Honor that feeling. 3. Rething the situation w an empowering thought. Ie. Why cant i just do my notes? (Name) you are making progress in just starting. (Name) I am confident in your ability to complete them. An affirmation with self compassion works for me.

rollarotten avatar
rollarotten
4mo

The hardest thing I deal with is taking things personally. I need to start making positive affirmations.

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amazingandyyy
4mo

For me it’s playing songs and change songs so I can keep my dopamine stable The other is deep breath

adhdJimbo avatar
adhdJimbo
4mo

I nap, which is bad as I loose an hour a day sleeping.

rollarotten avatar
rollarotten
4mo

These days trying not to sweat the small stuff.

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rollarotten
4mo

I’ve now learned that I need to break things into micro tasks. If anxiety kicks in I just take a step back and decompress.

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adhdbro33
4mo

Hi all, I like to hang on tight to my Christian faith, speak only positivity to myself as recommended by my Therapist. Even if at first you don’t believe it. Stay active physically 3-5 out of the 7 days. Yoga, running and Basketball. To be clear, I was diagnosed at 40. I’m 41, and still learning but I couldn’t do it or continue to do it without my whole team! My sons and wife have been extremely supportive and we’re figuring things out together. My primary care Doctor, who recommended me to my Psychiatrist and the list goes on. Believe you can overcome anything and you will. God bless!

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amfam3-AiVb
1mo

One of the most difficult aspects, I think, is sticking to it. You seem to work diligently, not only on your self awareness, but also finding the safe space in your support systems to keep going. This is very hard work! GREAT JOB and keep it up!

bastianson avatar
bastianson
4mo

Proud of you brother!

AnxiousMonkey avatar
AnxiousMonkey
5mo

I always prefer to move, whether it's to talk

ThatGayGuy94 avatar
ThatGayGuy94
5mo

I funnel was aniexty/emotions into video games. My husband loves to watch it while we play video games haha.

bastianson avatar
bastianson
4mo

I can’t relate to that!

ThatGayGuy94 avatar
ThatGayGuy94
5mo

This app is my to go to for all things adhd, if I have more than one thing then it’s hard but this app makes is simple

anonymousamber avatar
anonymousamber
5mo

I use apps Iike this, or il use a planner that I actually physically write in or fill out on my phone and check in myself thru out the day.

rollarotten avatar
rollarotten
5mo

I Journal 📓 my thoughts daily. Whether they are positive or negative. It’s my way of clearing my thoughts. I guess you could call it a brain dump.

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