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lllaylaaa
1
1 year ago

Struggling

I'm a mama of a 7, almost 4, and 5 month old...i Clean multiple times daily in large amounts. My oldest two have chores now so it does help me out some....but I just am finding it hard to get out of bed in the morning. My period is late and I can't afford to start therapy ...we struggle to pay bills and some don't get paid. It's even harder to get groceries. I just need a break.... I have blood pressure issues and the meds I take have flaws but I can't switch the type of meds until I stop breast feeding.... just a lot of stuff on top of other stuff. And I know that that life but I just need something to give...

lllaylaaa avatar
lllaylaaa
12mo

It's just so hard because I can't afford help and my mom and dad aren't in my life ... hopefully soon my mother n law can help me...

lllaylaaa avatar
lllaylaaa
11mo

I won't say that but I'm from Louisiana

angie123 avatar
angie123
12mo

What city are you in

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jenums
1y

I’m the mom of twin 12 year olds and most of the time I feel like I am trying to heard feral cats. I cannot imagine 7. Don’t be to harsh on yourself. Just remember it is ok to pause if everyone is safe, fed, and not covered in toxic waste. Also, my dr said no duct taping them to walls. 😁

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ArtsyADHD
1y

That is a lot for ANYONE regardless of neurotypical/divergent status. I agree with Ran7a… you need help to get some systems in place so you can feel more empowered. Have you looked into getting an ADHD coach? There are also podcasts that help women with ADHD. Just some thoughts. Hang in there.

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sloemoe64
1y

ADDiva is a great FB group

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Ran7a
1y

I think you might need professional support to get you started to delegate some chores. It seems too much at the beginning especially with so many responsibilities.

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