Ppl saying they have adhd
Is it weird for me to be pissed off when people who very much don’t seem to have ADHD say “I’ve been thinking I have adhd!” after they’re distracted by something or saying how they can’t ever sit still. — people who I know for years and years. Lived with them. They really do not! I wouldn’t assume this about someone I don’t know well, and ofc I’m no doctor but I’m really as sure as i can be about them. Pisses me off because I never even say I do… I struggle with it so much, but I just deal with it, and they seem to take it as a joke. I blame TikTok 😐. I think it’s too much over there. I don’t wanna feel angry about this, but the feeling’s there. And I don’t wanna tell people to stfu if they say they have adhd like that because I don’t wanna ignore their struggles… but it’s hard to have empathy when I’m struggling every single day with this, and they say it so genuinely about something as silly as being distracted by something once… Maybe this anger’s telling me I’m not getting enough support for my own “adhd” (undiagnosed, I’ve never visited a doctor so I’m not even sure if I do have it. It seems too likely though, it’d be an amazing surprise if I don’t…). But the thing is, i don’t even think I should get that kind of support… i think I should just make it work. But maybe that isn’t helpful. Or maybe I’m wrong and I shouldn’t ever assume no matter how long or how well I’ve known them? What do you think?… i don’t wanna be an a-hole about this stuff 😕 This is a rant, wanted support honestly. I never post so openly but something about this app makes it easy. Only been here a couple days but it’s a comfortable place. If you’ve read all this, thank you I really do appreciate it.