Been being deceived and lied to but having ADHD and being a overthinker sucks bc we always find out the truth...how do you have a good relationship with severe ADHD and be loved as much as you give without being used???
Honestly, I thought that I’m the one that crazy and guilty for my overthinking mind… I try to correlate my emotions with my needs, and when I feel like I am being cheated or not appreciated by my partner, I remind myself that I am the only person who will stay there for me till the end of life and try to calm down not to do anything impulsive.
I find suspicion works against me. It leaves me tired and pessimistic. You just gotta trust to unburden yourself. Keep learning about adhd (I’m a podcast junkie). Be yourself as hard as it is. Love will come to you.
Sorry it’s just so nice to know that I’m not the only one who feels like this.
They are saying that they APPRECIATE you opening up
Sorry for opening up I guess people do t like that
Omg! I’m going through this right now. I thought I was just being crazy but I always seem to know things, I’m such an overthinker myself and sometimes it does ruin good relationships unfortunately. I tend to analyze every little thing it’s so draining 😒
It is and when you find out from the source that the month you guys took time off to work on things for yourself and got back together a month later then find out 5 months later from your friend that she took her pants off at his house and said "want to eat some good pussy" then told her BFF that told me now and also my buddy finally told me the truth about her and she denied it saying she was drunk and he took advantage of her....I almost fought my friend over someone that used me....I deserve better....I have a lot of love to give and I deserve the same back.
HAVE SOMEONE SEE ME FOR ME. NOT WHAT THEY WANT FROM ME.
I JUST WANT TO BE HAPPY FOR ONCE!!
Can ADHDers have good relationships with each other I guess that's a valid question eh bc we truly do understand each other
Me too. I totally understand how you feel 🥺 I’m feeling that exact same way right this very moment.
