Hi. Yes - I’m 43 and undiagnosed but my second son is now diagnosed. ( last year aged 18) Many of our generation are only now getting diagnosed because of our children’s diagnoses. I believe 2 of my other children also have ADHD , possibly autism in my daughter , and possibly AS in my youngest son. But we all seem to be relatively high functioning/ lower end of the spectrum, and I’ve never had much trust or respect for these ‘doctors’ because all they ever seem to want to do is prescribe pharmaceuticals….. but everyday I’m learning more about all these ND ‘disorders’ and traits, as part of the very first generation of parents to do so. And my son is actually educating me too! ❤️
Our gen were completely ignored by our elders in every sense, and yet are now having to parent themselves and their own kids through ND and the beginning of the technological age , with no prior experience from our own parents to lean on at all, so it’s no suprise that in many instances it’s being found that the kids are the ones teaching and helping us.